Butter movie review & film summary (2022)

Butter is obese and high school students are mean. His mother tries to comfort him with food. He admits he barely tastes it anymore, “but I had to keep going to relieve my pain.” His non-edible comforts are his saxophone (he is a talented jazz musician) and his Catfish-style online relationship with the prettiest girl in school, Anna (McKaley Miller). He tells her he is a soccer player at a private school. He believes, or he believes that he believes, that he is his authentic self online. But he's hiding more than what he looks like.

Impulsively, Butter decides to declare online that he will literally eat himself to death on New Year’s Eve. All of a sudden, everyone at school sees him differently. They pay attention to him. They talk to him. They think he is interesting. They suggest he password-protect the site to keep parents or teachers from discovering it. His classmates begin taking bets about what he will do, what he will eat, and whether he will succeed. Without trying, without even noticing, he begins to lose weight. He tells us he has replaced his appetite for food with an appetite for internet attention.

That is the problem with this film; it tells rather than shows. It relies too heavily on narration and includes another character who exists solely to tell us what the movie has already shown us. It's clearly sincere and wants to send a powerful message about bullying. But it is not as effective as it wants to be because it is heavy-handed in a way that has nothing to do with Butter’s weight.

One good point made by the film is that Anna, too, is drawn to an online relationship because it is not based on her physical appearance. And another is that bullying does not have to involve physical intimidation or violence or even insults, though all of those are used against Butter. Sometimes bullying can also be disguised as encouragement. Some of the people who appear to be befriending Butter are taking a gruesome pleasure in seeing him plan his own suicide, even recommending additions to his menu. Though every student at the school seems to follow what he's doing, no one tries to talk him out of it or gets an adult to intervene. “They weren’t mocking me,” he tells us. “They were cheering me on.” But they were cheering on the spectacle, not the person.